Okay I'm going to call this one fixed. Below is the before and after pics for replacing the hose clamps on coolant "T" fitting part 20. Looking at the pictures it looks like it would be an incredible feat of wizardry to actually get those factory spring clamps off, well let me tell you it is every bit of a pain as it looks like it would be
After replacing the hose clamps I flushed a bunch more, I swear I've ran 50 gallons through this thing, and then filled it with distilled vinegar to get out any leftover bits of stop leak, scale, or whatever. I had the vinegar in for several hours and it is definitely not leaking now, you wouldn't miss that smell if it was leaking. After draining that, and a few more flushes, including a baking soda flush to neutralize the vinegar, this has to be the cleanest this cooling system's been in a long time.
It started getting cold so I called it a night but tomorrow I'll probably flush it a couple more times for good measure and then fill it up with new Honda coolant.
Winging it every chance I get
19,119 miles when I got it from dad Oct 15, 2017 --- 28,659 miles and counting as of Sep 11, 2020!